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Miyako Hotsuin [峰津院 都] ([personal profile] capitalbackup) wrote in [community profile] compnetwork2013-04-03 10:08 pm

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[Considering a certain request she received, Miyako was stuck on how to handle this. She’s not the most social and outgoing of people. She is active, but Miyako knew very well she’s not the best possible person to advise that man about this. She only accepted the request for her own reasons.

But the request...after a thought, she typed up a post and put it on the network. Anonymously of course. Miyako doesn't want her name or face attached to this at the moment. If she's going to fulfil the request, she would give it her best and do it with all the possible information at hand.
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How do you get someone to be more social and active?

And get them to pick up a hobby?

eyewillprotect: (Hmm?)

[personal profile] eyewillprotect 2013-04-05 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, you mean like William? [As he is the only DJ she knows of.]

I am not very familiar with that genre, either.
imthegoodguy: (pic#5896780)

[personal profile] imthegoodguy 2013-04-06 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Something like that; but it's an imprecise method of introducing someone to a hobby. Their interests aren't foolproof, either. Just because you like trains doesn't mean you'll enjoy building them. The problem with hobbies are that they're things people don't often talk about doing and enjoying. If you ask someone what they like, they might say music, which would make you think they'd enjoy playing an instrument, even though what they really enjoy is something like nonfiction writing.

You'll really have to dig to get that information out of them.
seasidecherry: (are we living our dreams?)

voice;

[personal profile] seasidecherry 2013-04-06 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
You could pick a kind of bird and a different spot in the city, see how many of that kind of bird you saw within a couple of hours? With cell phones and computers and all, you could probably set up something to record it. Loser buys the winner an ice cream or something?
eyewillprotect: (Default)

[personal profile] eyewillprotect 2013-04-06 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
There are some films that have great music, aren't there? Maybe you could introduce the person to those?
acapriciousthing: (Default)

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[personal profile] acapriciousthing 2013-04-06 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of it is example, really. And some they'll have to work out for themself.
deathboss: (Movement - Babe I'm beautiful)

[personal profile] deathboss 2013-04-06 11:11 am (UTC)(link)
Hooooooo!

[Hope your sound was mostly muted.]

Hmmm, now why are you asking such questions anonymously?

Is this a secret crush? Then perhaps Michel can be of aid! No no, no need to thank him.

First of all, make sure that someone is interested, babe! You can't change someone, just work with them! Don't force, gently prod and offer to help them yourself!

But most importantly...let your heart be your guide. If you yourself show that you have an interest in a hobby and want to share that love to someone else, it'll only work if you believe in that hobby yourself. You know what I'm saying?
eyewillprotect: (Komaki please stop.)

[personal profile] eyewillprotect 2013-04-06 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah...

I'm not very familiar with them myself, unfortunately. And I'm not sure which movies I know even exist here, either.
imthegoodguy: (pic#5896323)

[personal profile] imthegoodguy 2013-04-06 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
If you ask them what they like to do and they respond with something obvious.
acapriciousthing: (Default)

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[personal profile] acapriciousthing 2013-04-07 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
Just practice. Socializing's more of an art than a science.
eyewillprotect: (Kira kira class president kira.)

[personal profile] eyewillprotect 2013-04-07 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I will do that, then. How should I contact you again if I find them?]
deathboss: (Motion - Deal with it)

[personal profile] deathboss 2013-04-07 04:55 am (UTC)(link)
Heh heh, if you say so! Regardless if it's a crush or not, my advice still stands, as you said so yourself!

Good luck, whoever you are!
eyewillprotect: (What...?)

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[personal profile] eyewillprotect 2013-04-08 10:33 am (UTC)(link)
[Ah--]

Hotsuin? So it was you?

[A pause.]

Was the anonymous post really necessary?

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