It'll happen. It usually appears for the first time when you're stressed or in need of help. At home, we used Evokers to simulate that feeling and be able to call on them more regularly... but it sounds like we won't need those here. From the way I heard people talking, they're pretty reliable all on their own, once they've appeared.

It's good to be able to fight without it, though. You never know when you'll be in a tight spot. I'm glad I've got my fists to back me up.