Maybe right now you don't know if you can, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't try.

*She gives his arm an extra comforting squeeze before withdrawing her hand and looking at her glass of water*

Hey - no - that's okay. I mean, sure, you're totally right about being happy on your birthday but.. maybe talking about stuff is what you need, more than cake and parties and stuff.

*Uh yeah, Selphie, like this is even close to a party. But she knows what she means*